Compatibility Index

compability_index What's Your Communication Style HeaderIt’s not about sex or money. It almost never is. It’s about our inability to have meaningful authentic communication around those topics and many more. Whether you are single or in a relationship, knowing your Communication Style is the secret to mastering elegant, guilt-free, competent and confident communication skills that will bring peace of mind and harmony to all your relationships, one conversation at a time.
I can tell you in less than 60 minutes exactly what your communication style is with the innovative Compatibility Index and how it is affecting all your relationships. For couples, the results clearly indicate where you are each coming from and how that is possibly creating disharmony and miscommunication in your relationship.

  • Are you tired of trying to figure out how to get him to listen or open up more?
  • Do you often avoid talking about the topics that are often the most important to you?
  • Do you wonder how other couples seem to get each other more than yours?
  • Do you get irritated and take it out on others then regret your behavior?
  • Do you catch yourself moaning, ” I coulda, woulda shoulda said this instead?”
  • Are you terrified you’ll be rejected, abandoned or start a fight if you say what’s really on your mind and in your heart?
  • Would you like to turn your so-so relationship into the Trailblazing fun, exciting, compassionate supportive relationship you yearn for?
  • Are you frustrated by the lack of validation, acknowledgement and appreciation in your relationships?
  • Are you wondering how you went from flirting and sexy date night conversation to only talking about mundane logistics, daily routine and the kids, or worse, no longer talking much at all?
  • Are you easily triggered by remarks people make?
  • Do  you take things personally too often?
  • Are you quick to judge others?
  • Do you need to have the last word?
  • Do you feel like all your attempts at making things work out are backfiring?
  • Do you think your partner should just know what you want because you’ve been together so long after all?
  • Are you ready to polish off your moxie and get your MOJO back?
  • Have you had some kind of transition or loss that is impacting your relationship and your life?
  • Have intimacy, passion and desire become things of the past, routine or boring?

If you answered “yes,” to any one of these questions, then what if you could easily ditch your ineffective communication style and become a confident, effective communicator who says what they mean and mean what they say with guilt-free elegance, one conversation at a time?

With my Innovative Online Compatibility Index (CI) and 60-Minute Strategy Session I will reveal your Communication Style and how that is bossing you around. It’s not who or what you think it is! We’ll take a close-up look at how that is impacting your life and all your relationships and your compatibility,  and best of all, you’ll have straight-forward tips to becoming an elegant, confident and guilt-free communicator in all your relationships. You’ll reclaim your voice and learn to speak up without fear of rejection or being misunderstood. With a few simple strategies and support, you’ll  be redesigning the relationship and complicity you deserve and desire in no time!

Understanding your Communication Style will:

  • Shine a light on where you’re unconsciously blocking effective communication.
  • Show you how to rechannel negative energy vibes into healthier positive levels.
  • Point out how your belief system and past stories are still haunting you and dictating your communication style.
  • Guide you to rewriting your story for sensory empowered communication that guarantees sustainable peace and harmony in all your relationships.
  • Kick out the culprits filling your head with self-sabotaging fears and doubts.
  • Help you stop the unending stress and questions that keep you awake at night.
  • Reveal how your thoughts and emotions are bossing you around and how to take back control.

Who wouldn’t want all that?

Here’s what people are saying ~

“I closed a $25,000 coaching contract thanks to the Compatibility Index and knowing how I respond when I feel provoked. When I saw I was getting into a political debate with my potential client, I shifted my normal fighter response to a win-win response and said, “It looks like we are both equally passionate about our points of view!” That validated his right to his opinion without judging him and communicated integrity. A more defensive reply would have lost the sale.”
Lorenda Phillips, MCC, Business Coach


Imagine how different your life and relationships will be when you are able to:

  • Ask for what you want and need without feeling guilty, nagging, complaining or blaming yourself or others.
  • Discover your real purpose in life by seeing opportunity everywhere around you.
  • Open up fearlessly and authentically to heartfelt communication with everyone.
  • Replace moaning and anger with compassion and empathy.
  • Express your desires, needs and concerns with confidence and grace.
  • Listen with your heart and express your soul’s deepest desires elegantly.
  • Laugh and truly enjoy each others company like you did before.
  • Let go of judgments and pull out of the blame game.
  • Enjoy coming home to a haven of authenticity and intimacy instead of finding excuses to stay away from the stress and disappointment of lackluster dead-end conversation
  • Experience a stress-free life and harmonious relationships thanks to being able to express yourself authentically and without fear or shame.
  • Experience how allowing yourself to be vulnerable opens up your relationships in ways you never imagined before.
  • Say “no” to settling for less than what you deserve and desire and attract the people and relationships you want
  • Experience so much more joy and harmony in all areas of your life!

The Compatibility Index (CI) is an innovative 20-minute online assessment tool that accurately reflects your current ability to communicate effectively, confidently and authentically so that you have successful, healthy relationships. This attitudinal assessment is based on the revolutionary Energetic Self Perception Chart developed by Bruce Schneider, Ph.D., MCC, during his 25 years of research on human potential.

Unlike other personality tests, the CI is not a predictive assessment and thus serves as a powerful launch point from which you can begin to identify specific changes that must be made within your current way of thinking and communicating, as well as what actions can be taken in order to say what you mean and mean what you say elegantly, powerfully and without guilt, enabling you to attract what you desire in your life and sustain all healthy interpersonal relationships with ease.

The results of the 20-minute online Compatibility Index reveal your energetic vibration for all aspects of your life. You’ll see how you show up when things are going great and which Communication Style you slip into and how you react when things get a little trickier for you.  During the included follow-up strategy session with Deb, you’ll see how your Communication Style is bossing you around and how to take back control for elegant, confident and guilt-free communication in any situation.

Compatibility Index + 60-minute Debrief Strategy Session $197

Fall Special only $147

How do I take the Compatibility Index?

1.    Purchase your Compatibility Index Online Assessment
Then, Deb will contact you to set up your appointment for your Debrief Strategy Session

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